November 16 – Proverbs 3:5-6; 15:22; 21:5; 17:10; 17:24

Main Focus: Discernment

Below is a recap from week 1 and it serves as a reminder how we can apply it to the area of discernment. A great reminder and application needed as we close out our time from the book of Proverbs.

The terms steadfast love (loyalty) and faithfulness. These terms are used together in the Lord’s self-declaration to Moses of his character in covenantal relationship (See Ex. 34:6, “abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness”). In light of the appeals to trust (Prov. 3:5), fear (v. 7), and honor (v. 9) the Lord, the call here to bind them around your neck and write them on the tablet of your heart is best understood as encouragement to live faithfully to the covenant.

Submitting one’s own understanding to the Lord is in keeping with the major theme of Proverbs, that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge (See Proverbs 1:7). Trust in the LORD is necessary for fulfilling any of the wise ways of life taught in Proverbs; trusting the Lord is closely connected to “fearing” him (cf. 1:7; 2:5; 9:10; 15:33; 19:23; etc.). With all your heart indicates that trust goes from intellectual assent to a deep reliance on the Lord, a settled confidence in his care and his faithfulness to his Word. Do not lean on your own understanding further explains trusting in the Lord. One’s “understanding” in Proverbs is his perception of the right course of action. The wise will govern themselves by what the Lord himself declares, and will not set their own finite and often-mistaken understanding against his.

We live in a culture in which there are more choices than there ever have been. You can be incredibly good, moral, and knowledgeable and still make pretty stupid choices. Wisdom is knowing the right thing to do in the 80 percent of choices that the moral rules don’t directly apply to. What you need in order to make good choices is wisdom. In Proverbs 3 we learn where wisdom develops and why submitting to God’s Word is better than self-sufficiency.

According to Tim Keller, there are three things that comprise a wise, godly life. They function both as means to becoming wise and godly as well as signs that you are growing into such a life:

1. Put your heart’s deepest trust in God and his grace. Every day remind yourself of his unconditioned, covenantal love for you. Do not instead put your hopes in idols or in your own performance.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all your heart (Prov 3:3-5a)

2. Submit your whole mind to the Scripture. Don’t think you know better than God’s word. Bring it to bear on every area of life. Become a person under authority.

Lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Prov 3:5b-6)

3. Be humble and teachable toward others. Be forgiving and understanding when you want to be critical of them; be ready to learn from others when they come to be critical of you.

Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones. (Prov 3:7-8)

As we meditate on these three elements–rooted in his grace, obeying and delighting in his Word, and humble before other people–I thought of Jesus. The New Testament tells us that the personified ‘divine wisdom’ of the Old Testament is actually Jesus (Mt 11:19.)

Jesus showed the ultimate trust and faithfulness to God and to us by going to the cross.
Jesus was saturated with and shaped by Scripture.
Jesus was meek and lowly in heart.

We can only grow in these three areas if you know you are saved by costly grace. That keeps you from idols, from self-sufficiency and pride, from selfishness with your things, and from crumbling under troubles. Jesus is wisdom personified, and believing his gospel brings these character qualities into your life.